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Where dedicated women come to rediscover their strength, their femininity, and their love for fitness. Aging does not define us, we defy aging by defining our bodies. Welcome to your strong, sexy pathway after 40. Here we understand that what you did in your 20s to get fit will not help you after 40 to get fit. Using experience and science we have discovered the fastest and most efficient way to transform your body to look and feel better after 40 then you did in your 20s.
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Hi, I'm Nancy
Hey there! I'm Nancy Di Nino your dedicated Women's Fitness Coach, here to ignite your strength and sex appeal. With my high-energy approach and unwavering belief in your potential, I'll guide you through every step of your transformation journey. Let's turn your dreams into reality and unleash your inner powerhouse. Join me today and let's soar to new heights of success together!
With a contagious enthusiasm and unwavering passion, I am the go-to coach for aspiring and established strong and sexy bodies alike. My high-energy approach and dynamic coaching style empower individuals to unlock their full potential and turn their dream bodies into reality.
Nancy is a former professional Fitness Competitor with 20+ years of experience, a certified Clinical Weight Loss Practitioner and certified in Advanced Nutrition for Fat Loss Strategies and a Personal Trainer for over 30 years.
She has coached thousands of people, including gym novices and professional competitors, and now specializes in helping women of all body types reach their health and fitness goals by focusing on female metabolism, gut, and hormone health.
Recognized by Forbes Magazine, Apple News and one of Canada’s Top Trainers she has also been features in Oxygen, Muscle & Fitness Hers and Iron Man Magazine.
She has also hosted media events, including The Arnold Schwarzenegger Sports Weekend.
In my 20s, I was insecure, cared what others thought of me and wanted to look to ‘others’ for approval... In my 30s, I spent years having a bad relationship with food and body dysmorphia. Despite winning fitness competitions, I was miserable on the inside from the calorie restriction, which led to binge eating, depression and isolating myself from social activities.
But when I finally leveled up to return to my lean, strong, confident self, I was hit with another challenge: The perimenopause season got me. How I was eating and training wasn’t working for me - I started to freak out, thinking I was slowly aging...
But this was the “aha” moment I needed to regain control of my life and not give up on myself.
After 40, I became obsessed with learning about female metabolism and hormones and how vital muscle is to keep living. STRONG & SEXY for the rest of my life. Muscle is anti-aging.
And that is why I am on a mission to impact women 40+ (yes, it starts in mid-30s) to look and feel better than they did in their 20s.
Midlife Muscle Makeover
A 21-day progress-proven program that will jump-start your transformation. This is for the women who have the motivation to transform themselves, and just need a plan to follow. We got you covered. Get yourself back into the swing of things with a laid-out fitness routine, nutrition plan, and a community to chat with. This is a self-paced program that you can do on your own.
Strong & Sexy Program
Strong & Sexy is a program designed to help women achieve their ideal body composition, while also improving their strength and overall health.
The program includes a comprehensive nutrition plan, as well as customized workout routines that are tailored to each individual's goals and fitness level.
The Strong & Sexy Experience
The Strong and Sexy Experience is your transformational showcase. This is an in-person weekend with Nancy, her team and a collection of the most dedicated women after completing their strong and sexy programs This weekend includes a luxury stay, hair, make-up, photoshoot, and more.
Don’t just earn your results, show them off in style.
HRT Saved My Life (and how you can get your's back too!)
Menopause doesn’t care how fit you used to be.
I was doing everything “right.”
✅ Eating clean
✅ Lifting weights
✅ A former fitness competitor with all the discipline in the world
And still...
I was gaining weight.
Couldn’t sleep.
Hot flashes, bloating, anxiety.
Disconnected from my body.
I felt like I was slipping away.
No one talks about how brutal this season can be.
They tell us to just deal with it.
To accept it as part of aging.
But I wasn’t ready to give up on myself — and neither should you.
What Changed Everything for Me?
One conversation with a friend.
She asked if I’d ever had my hormones tested. Not the quick TSH check at the doctor’s office — a full panel. That moment lit the fire.
I found a functional doctor (and you should too).
Got my progesterone, estradiol, testosterone, thyroid, and DHEA tested.
Finally, someone saw what I felt.
👉 My thyroid was under-active
👉 My testosterone was low
👉 My body wasn’t “fine” — it was fighting
I started bioidentical hormone replacement therapy (BHRT).
And within weeks, I felt like me again.
🔥 My energy came back
🔥 My workouts started working
🔥 My sleep improved
🔥 I was no longer ruled by mood swings or exhaustion
So, What Is HRT?
HRT stands for hormone replacement therapy. Specifically: replenishing the hormones your body naturally stops producing as you enter peri and post-menopause.
This can include:
Estrogen
Progesterone
Testosterone
DHEA (sometimes)
Thyroid support if needed
Most women over 40 are often told they’re “fine” when doctors look at labs through the lens of disease, not optimization.
But there’s a difference between being “normal” and feeling like YOURSELF again.
What HRT Is NOT
Let me clear up some common misconceptions:
🚫 It’s not steroids
🚫 It’s not a magic pill
🚫 It’s not unsafe when done correctly
🚫 It’s not “cheating” or “taking the easy way”
The truth? HRT is about giving your body what it’s no longer producing so you can thrive.
Dr. Mary Claire Haver — a leading voice in menopause care — says it best:
“Replacing hormones is not about reversing aging. It’s about improving quality of life.”
And that’s what it did for me.
But What If You’re Not Ready for HRT?
That’s okay.
This isn’t a sales pitch — it’s about knowing your options.
You can still support your hormones naturally by:
Strength training 3–4x per week
Eating enough protein and healthy fats
Prioritizing quality sleep
Managing blood sugar and cortisol
Reducing alcohol and ultra-processed food
Getting your gut health in check
The key is creating a body that supports balance, no matter the path you choose.
HRT Isn’t the Only Answer — It’s Part of the Puzzle
Hormone replacement therapy changed my life — but HRT alone isn’t enough.
If you’re taking hormones but still skipping strength training, not prioritizing recovery, or living off salads and snacks… you’re going to keep spinning your wheels.
Here’s what actually works:
💪 Muscle is the Metabolic Anchor
You can’t out-supplement a body with no muscle.
And as estrogen declines, muscle mass becomes your secret weapon for better metabolism, bone health, blood sugar control, and fat loss.
I’m not talking about cardio or circuit classes.
I’m talking real strength training — progressive overload with intention.
Your training has to change after 40.
You’re not 25 anymore, and that’s not a bad thing — it just means training smarter, not harder.
🍽️ Nutrition That Supports Hormones (Not Triggers Inflammation)
This is where most women mess up.
You can be in a calorie deficit and still be inflamed, bloated, and exhausted.
Why?
Because you're not eating the right foods.
You need to be tracking more than just macros — you need to know where those macros are coming from.
Here’s what to focus on:
✅ High-quality protein (100–140g/day depending on goals)
✅ Anti-inflammatory fats (olive oil, avocado, omega-3s)
✅ Fiber-rich carbs to support gut health
❌ Cut back the sugar, processed foods, alcohol
❌ Stop overdoing caffeine — it spikes cortisol
❌ Mindless snacking adds stress to your system
It’s not about being “perfect” — it’s about being strategic.
The Truth Is…
HRT opened the door — but building muscle and reducing inflammation is what made the results stick.
It’s the daily structure of lifting, eating with intention, managing stress, and honoring recovery that pulled me out of the hole.
You don’t have to do everything at once.
But you do have to stop ignoring the truth:
➡️ This isn’t a diet phase.
➡️ It’s a full-body lifestyle reset.
➡️ And it’s the best gift you’ll ever give yourself.
Want to Know What to Test?
If you’re tired of being dismissed…
If your labs say “normal” but you feel like a stranger in your own skin…
I created a free Hormone Lab Panel Checklist that outlines exactly what to ask for — and what most general practitioners miss.
👉 https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/EmYDu95dT1Ymtxx68PnO
Whether you choose BHRT or not — the point is: You deserve to know your body.
Don’t let anyone tell you this is just what happens “after 40.”
You’re not broken.
You’re not crazy.
You’re not lazy.
You’re in a new season — and it requires a new level of support.
I’m not here to push a path. I’m here to give you the permission and power to CHOOSE.
Let’s stop suffering in silence.
Let’s start leading with strength — and science.
HRT Saved My Life (and how you can get your's back too!)
Menopause doesn’t care how fit you used to be.
I was doing everything “right.”
✅ Eating clean
✅ Lifting weights
✅ A former fitness competitor with all the discipline in the world
And still...
I was gaining weight.
Couldn’t sleep.
Hot flashes, bloating, anxiety.
Disconnected from my body.
I felt like I was slipping away.
No one talks about how brutal this season can be.
They tell us to just deal with it.
To accept it as part of aging.
But I wasn’t ready to give up on myself — and neither should you.
What Changed Everything for Me?
One conversation with a friend.
She asked if I’d ever had my hormones tested. Not the quick TSH check at the doctor’s office — a full panel. That moment lit the fire.
I found a functional doctor (and you should too).
Got my progesterone, estradiol, testosterone, thyroid, and DHEA tested.
Finally, someone saw what I felt.
👉 My thyroid was under-active
👉 My testosterone was low
👉 My body wasn’t “fine” — it was fighting
I started bioidentical hormone replacement therapy (BHRT).
And within weeks, I felt like me again.
🔥 My energy came back
🔥 My workouts started working
🔥 My sleep improved
🔥 I was no longer ruled by mood swings or exhaustion
So, What Is HRT?
HRT stands for hormone replacement therapy. Specifically: replenishing the hormones your body naturally stops producing as you enter peri and post-menopause.
This can include:
Estrogen
Progesterone
Testosterone
DHEA (sometimes)
Thyroid support if needed
Most women over 40 are often told they’re “fine” when doctors look at labs through the lens of disease, not optimization.
But there’s a difference between being “normal” and feeling like YOURSELF again.
What HRT Is NOT
Let me clear up some common misconceptions:
🚫 It’s not steroids
🚫 It’s not a magic pill
🚫 It’s not unsafe when done correctly
🚫 It’s not “cheating” or “taking the easy way”
The truth? HRT is about giving your body what it’s no longer producing so you can thrive.
Dr. Mary Claire Haver — a leading voice in menopause care — says it best:
“Replacing hormones is not about reversing aging. It’s about improving quality of life.”
And that’s what it did for me.
But What If You’re Not Ready for HRT?
That’s okay.
This isn’t a sales pitch — it’s about knowing your options.
You can still support your hormones naturally by:
Strength training 3–4x per week
Eating enough protein and healthy fats
Prioritizing quality sleep
Managing blood sugar and cortisol
Reducing alcohol and ultra-processed food
Getting your gut health in check
The key is creating a body that supports balance, no matter the path you choose.
HRT Isn’t the Only Answer — It’s Part of the Puzzle
Hormone replacement therapy changed my life — but HRT alone isn’t enough.
If you’re taking hormones but still skipping strength training, not prioritizing recovery, or living off salads and snacks… you’re going to keep spinning your wheels.
Here’s what actually works:
💪 Muscle is the Metabolic Anchor
You can’t out-supplement a body with no muscle.
And as estrogen declines, muscle mass becomes your secret weapon for better metabolism, bone health, blood sugar control, and fat loss.
I’m not talking about cardio or circuit classes.
I’m talking real strength training — progressive overload with intention.
Your training has to change after 40.
You’re not 25 anymore, and that’s not a bad thing — it just means training smarter, not harder.
🍽️ Nutrition That Supports Hormones (Not Triggers Inflammation)
This is where most women mess up.
You can be in a calorie deficit and still be inflamed, bloated, and exhausted.
Why?
Because you're not eating the right foods.
You need to be tracking more than just macros — you need to know where those macros are coming from.
Here’s what to focus on:
✅ High-quality protein (100–140g/day depending on goals)
✅ Anti-inflammatory fats (olive oil, avocado, omega-3s)
✅ Fiber-rich carbs to support gut health
❌ Cut back the sugar, processed foods, alcohol
❌ Stop overdoing caffeine — it spikes cortisol
❌ Mindless snacking adds stress to your system
It’s not about being “perfect” — it’s about being strategic.
The Truth Is…
HRT opened the door — but building muscle and reducing inflammation is what made the results stick.
It’s the daily structure of lifting, eating with intention, managing stress, and honoring recovery that pulled me out of the hole.
You don’t have to do everything at once.
But you do have to stop ignoring the truth:
➡️ This isn’t a diet phase.
➡️ It’s a full-body lifestyle reset.
➡️ And it’s the best gift you’ll ever give yourself.
Want to Know What to Test?
If you’re tired of being dismissed…
If your labs say “normal” but you feel like a stranger in your own skin…
I created a free Hormone Lab Panel Checklist that outlines exactly what to ask for — and what most general practitioners miss.
👉 https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/EmYDu95dT1Ymtxx68PnO
Whether you choose BHRT or not — the point is: You deserve to know your body.
Don’t let anyone tell you this is just what happens “after 40.”
You’re not broken.
You’re not crazy.
You’re not lazy.
You’re in a new season — and it requires a new level of support.
I’m not here to push a path. I’m here to give you the permission and power to CHOOSE.
Let’s stop suffering in silence.
Let’s start leading with strength — and science.
With over 25 years’ experience as a Personal Trainer her forte is teaching proper form and the anatomy of lifting using her own tried and true T3 Training Methods.
Being in her 50s she understands the needs of women’s health, hormones, nutrition and training in the over 40 years and the formula to age in reverse.
She is certified in Menopause Nutrition and Advanced Clinical Fat loss. Using a strong holistic approach to optimize healthy aging, her motto is “muscle is your prescription” to longevity. Muscle is medicine.Now she is on mission to impact women over 40 to look and feel their best by getting leaner and stronger with age and redefine societal perceptions around midlife and aging.
As a lifelong athlete she has graced the fitness stages as a National Level Figure Competitor and former world-class professional salsa dancer.
Her passion for fitness has led to an incredibly rewarding and diverse career in the international fitness, media and modeling industry; landing me features and covers for top publications like Forbes, Apple News, Oxygen, Muscle & Fitness Hers, and Iron Man Magazine.
Lauren Lane is a Personal Trainer, Nutrition Coach, Registered Nurse, Mom and Bikini Competitor. Her academic background is primarily in Molecular Biology and Nursing, but her passion is in incorporating whole body health into the different seasons of life for herself and others.
She believes the proper knowledge, habits and a phenomenal team support system can change and save lives while helping women confidently get to the pinnacle of their fitness.
Everyone's journey and reasons are as unique as they are and she's looking forward to getting to know clients and being a part of the fit and confident years of their lives!
Lauren is a lifelong athlete of various sports and has been doing NPC Bikini Shows on and off since 2015 as a way to create goals in the gym and kitchen. Competitions were her personal gateway into functional health and weightlifting and she loves to share what she's learned.
Most recently she lived in Germany where she competed in NPC Worldwide Pro-Qualifiers and the Olympia Amateur Circuit. She's your go-to-gal for all things show day and posing. But, also your hype-squad and motivator for any body goals you're trying to accomplish!
Lee Ann Buttery is a distinguished Licensed Esthetician for over 13 years and a Health Coach/Holistic Nutritionist for nearly 5 years.
She integrates her expertise in both skincare and nutrition to help her clients achieve optimal skin health and wellness.
With a strong holistic approach, she has addressed a gamut of issues such as aging skin to helping clients lose weight and manage autoimmune disease.
She obtained a certificate in plant-based nutrition from Cornell University and is currently a PhD candidate in Holistic Nutrition. As her knowledge in this field expanded, Lee Ann has now shifted her approach to more Primal/Animal-based
Nutrition.
Her brand has been featured in three issues of British VOGUE magazine Conde Nast Traveller and Glamour UK. Lee Ann was also interviewed on FOX Sports discussing weight loss and inflammation.
Jennifer, a seasoned business owner with over 32 years of experience, brings her expertise in operations to NDF. Her background spans information technology, sales, nutrition, and fitness.
As a Certified Personal Trainer since 2004, specializing in Women's Health and Fitness, Jennifer owned and operated a successful prenatal and postpartum boot camp in Arizona, earning national recognition in 2010. She later opened a women's Crossfit studio, and at 50, competed in the NPC Bikini Masters Division, winning accolades.
At 60, Jennifer, a wife of 36 years, mother of three, and grandmother of two, understands the challenges women face with aging. Having personally overcome menopausal issues through tailored training, she now uses her knowledge to support other women in similar journeys at NDF.
Shana is a Personal Trainer, Nutrition Coach and Mother of 2 boys. Her love of fitness and nutrition brought her to competing in in both Figure and Bikini, which led to competing at a national level.
She believes proper nutrition is transformative and healing and loves to see her clients succeed in creating a healthy relationship with food and fitness.
Shana’s passion for growth and learning is what keeps her tuned into her clients as well as her insight gained over 15 years being certified. Shana is ready to support you with all your goals and will be your biggest cheerleader and advocate along your journey.
Andrea Belasco has over 16 years in customer service. She brings invaluable expertise to our operations.
Her journey from corporate to entrepreneurship fuels her passion for supporting businesses and entrepreneurs to thrive.
Andrea's dedication, reliability, and hustle ensure that tasks are completed efficiently and effectively. She runs the behind-the-scenes, making sure everything runs smoothly for our members' success.
At NDF, Andrea is dedicated to helping you achieve your health and fitness goals with her exceptional organizational skills and commitment to excellence.
With over 25 years’ experience as a Personal Trainer her forte is teaching proper form and the anatomy of lifting using her own tried and true T3 Training Methods.
Being in her 50s she understands the needs of women’s health, hormones, nutrition and training in the over 40 years and the formula to age in reverse.
She is certified in Menopause Nutrition and Advanced Clinical Fat loss. Using a strong holistic approach to optimize healthy aging, her motto is “muscle is your prescription” to longevity.
Muscle is medicine. Now she is on mission to impact women over 40 to look and feel their best by getting leaner and stronger with age and redefine societal perceptions around midlife and aging.
As a lifelong athlete she has graced the fitness stages as a National Level Figure Competitor and former world-class professional salsa dancer.
Her passion for fitness has led to an incredibly rewarding and diverse career in the international fitness, media and modeling industry; landing me features and covers for top publications like Forbes, Apple News, Oxygen, Muscle & Fitness Hers, and Iron Man Magazine.
Jennifer, a seasoned business owner with over 32 years of experience, brings her expertise in operations to NDF. Her background spans information technology, sales, nutrition, and fitness.
As a Certified Personal Trainer since 2004, specializing in Women's Health and Fitness, Jennifer owned and operated a successful prenatal and postpartum boot camp in Arizona, earning national recognition in 2010. She later opened a women's Crossfit studio, and at 50, competed in the NPC Bikini Masters Division, winning accolades.
At 60, Jennifer, a wife of 36 years, mother of three, and grandmother of two, understands the challenges women face with aging. Having personally overcome menopausal issues through tailored training, she now uses her knowledge to support other women in similar journeys at NDF.
Am I too Old?
I am in my 50s! Are you kidding me. I know women and clients who are stronger and fitter than me now in their 60s and beyond. If you are approaching the 40 years or beyond and are a regular exerciser this may be EXACTLY what you need. After 35 we start to lose muscle mass and bones become weak so resistance training is crucial to maintain health and longevity. Muscle is medicine.
What does it Mean to be Future Proof?
It is the process where we teach your body to build LEAN MUSCLE AND HAVE A METABOLISM that never has to depend on a diet, restrictive plans or damn cardio! Age Proof is buidling a body that works for you for the rest of your life, having good joints, bones, skin and being able to carry groceries up the stairs beyond 65!
Are Nancy’s Program For Me?
Nancy’s programs are for women over 40 ( or approaching 40), approaching midlife and want to lose the final 10-15lbs (yes peri-menopause years!). This is for women who want to build lean strong feminine muscle, sexy curves and future proof your body. You must have some experience lifting weights, must be familiar with the gym, and have some knowledge of meal planning.
How do I Get Started?
Click the button below that says “Apply to work with Nancy.” Fill out the application and then book a call to speak with one of Nancy’s team members. The call will go over all the details and determine if you and Nancy & and her team are a good fit to work together,
